Sep 29 2008
Sometimes, certain things may not be the reality but the mind works in mysterious ways. I guess when the mind has been programmed to see that it wants to see, then the above scenario may result.
Anyway, is there a ring of truth to the above picture? Is that how a man’s mind works? 
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Sep 29 2008
When you own a car, you certainly need to be prepared to set aside some money for its upkeep. Apart from the running fuel costs, a car would require servicing, tyre replacements and oil change among many others.
One other expense that you can’t run away from is, of course, the car insurance. Add up all these maintenance costs and you would find that it is not cheap to own a car.
Therefore, if you want to cut down on the expenses, you will need to shop around for the best deal. For instance, if you need a car insurance, you can try getting quotes online to do a comparison of the packages available. Do a little search for all other aspects of your car maintenance and you may well save quite a bit of money in the process.
Sep 27 2008
When you were still single and very much available, have you ever felt stressed up with dating? It just so happened that I got in touch with an old friend and I remember she once told me that she is sick of dating and trying to find the right guy.
Being a career woman with a good job, she certainly shouldn’t have much problem finding a man to share her life. But somehow, she feels that the more men she dates, the more reasons she finds not to get married. Maybe she is going out with all the wrong guys that she is finding the dating process such a stressful activity.
My own personal experience on dating is it is fun and offers an opportunity to get to know others a little better. Perhaps I was still young then that going out with different people have an excitement about it.
I guess once a woman reaches a certain age and have been on the dating circuit for years, it becomes kind of stressful having to go out with men you don’t really know and are suspicious about their intentions. After all, if you are already 30 plus, men that you date may not necessarily be who you think they are. Experience allows them to say and do the right things for the first few dates only for you to find out later the true characters that they actually are. And that is partly why my friend finds the dating game at her age a little too stressful.
But as she says if she doesn’t date, she won’t be able to find a man ever. So, dating has become a love-hate thing for her. Well, I should count myself lucky being married by now. Otherwise, I might just give up on dating if I’m in her shoes and end up being single my whole life.
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Sep 27 2008
If you are thinking of buying or mortgaging your house, you certainly need to shop around for the best deal. Different financial institutions usually offer different rates and packages to suit a diverse range of customer base.
Therefore, if you want to know what you can get from lenders, it is only natural that you get a few mortgage quotes and do a comparison on what they can offer.
Since, nowadays, looking for a mortgage does not necessarily mean you have to physically go and talk to a representative at the branch, searching for quotes and information has become so much easier. Fire up your computer, get on the web and you are a few clicks away to getting the quotes and information you need.
Sep 23 2008
It seems that a book that tells women how to get a man is hitting the bestsellers list. This book, The Re-Education of the Female
For instance, the book says women is the cause of their own problem for being unable to find and keep a man. After all, it mentions that men’s wants boil down to only 3 basic things and they are food, relaxation and sex. Therefore, all women need to do to satisfy those desires is be skinny and of course, sexy, and cook as well as clean. In short, the book advises women to do what a man wants and let him commands.
Now, wouldn’t that kind of writing attract attention in today’s world of equality? Sure it will. But surprisingly, there are also people who agree with him. Some online news articles reported some people actually find the book to be very true, although the truth is a little bitter to admit.
In fact, in an interview quoted here, the author asks whether you would pick the ugliest-looking and most rotten fruit or meat when you are grocery shopping. If you won’t, he says, the same goes for men. Why would they select a fat, out-of-shape woman for a mate? Personally, I don’t think it is a really good analogy but I guess you get his point and the gist of the book.
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Sep 23 2008
Not many people actually think of buying insurance when they go on a vacation. As many people do scrimp and save to get just enough for a holiday, additional expenses like travel insurance is often ignored.
However, no matter how you plan for a vacation, things beyond your control can still pop up and wreak havoc to your plans. For instance, your trip can be cancelled due to an emergency in that area or you may require medical attention when abroad which costs you more than you can afford.
This and many other unplanned for situations can all be safely covered with a travel insurance so that you can book your vacation and holiday with peace of mind.
Sep 20 2008
Whne I was reading through Glamour online magazine, there was an article that lists out 20 things a woman deserves from the guy in her life. One of the 20 include:
A thoughtful balance of refreshing honesty and merciful little white lies. A few examples: He should speak the truth when you ask, “Are you hurt by what I said earlier?” But he should fudge when you ask, “Honey, do you mind if my mom comes to dinner?”
Hmmm…. I guess white lies are practical when it comes to keeping things harmonious and uplifting in a relationship. After all, we may not want total honesty at all times, especially on matters that aren’t really critical.
But where do we draw the line then when it comes to white lies? Would you be comfortable if your partner lied about the prospect of your mom coming to dinner like the above example? Or would it be ok if your husband says you look beautiful with that new hairstyle when actually you don’t?
I think experts always recommend communication between two people to make a relationship lasts. I wonder whether that include a dose of white lies when the situation calls for it.
Anyway, do you tell your partner white lies once in a while?
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