Oct
26
2009
Do you feel that you are spoiling your kids at times? Compared to the past, when people tend to have more children, kids are rarely spoiled in the sense that they rarely got what they wanted and they were not as over-protected as kids are nowadays.
Most kids now have a roomful of toys and each new toy will probably only hold their attention for less than a week before they start wanting something new. And given the higher quality of life that we have now and the lesser number of children per couple, most parents do accede to toy and material requests now and then. Perhaps not all the time, but I think most parents will give in once in a while to delight their kids.
Maybe that is not really spoiling the kids but when you add up all the things that you have bought for your kids, you will probably realize that there are some things you shouldn’t have bought at all. But you bought it anyway then because your kid asked for it and you didn’t want to disappoint him, rather than because the thing was useful or something he would really enjoy.
In other words, we as parents, are more easily swayed now compared to parents of the past. Maybe there is more wealth to go around now and we can indulge them if we choose to. So, without as much financial pressure, we are more willing to agree to their whims and fancies.
Anyway, this is just my opinion and you might feel differently with your own kids. Perhaps I’m indeed spoiling my kid by buying him this and that every now and then. But how can you say no to your kid most of the time and not feel awful when he asks for things at the store, even when they are simple stuff?
Oct
26
2009
If you have pimples on your face and want to get rid of them, then you should go for acne treatments that can help you to get a smoother face. Otherwise, it is very easy to get noticeable scars all over the face which are even harder to get rid of over time.
I used to have acne too when I was in my teens. I ignored them initially but without treatment, they just don’t go away on their own. Some even left small scars on my face that I had no choice but to look for solutions.
So, if you have acne problems too, try to find out how to overcome them given your facial skin type. Otherwise, you may have a hard time getting better looking skin as time goes by.
Oct
26
2009
How much time do you spend being online everyday? For me, sometimes it can be up to hours at a stretch. It’s getting increasingly hard to break the habit of not turning on my computer every morning. Even if I don’t have the time to sit down and surf the net, I will still get online to check my mail at the very least.
OK, I just hope that I don’t end up like this one day, given the amount of time that I’m glued to the computer daily.

Picture From Very Funny Pics
Time to control my habit, I guess, before I’m covered with cobwebs sitting in front of the computer!
Oct
26
2009
With my plan to do a bit of traveling next year, it’s time I start shopping for some luggages. I’m looking at Samsonite or Eagle Creek luggage as I find that they are durable and within a reasonable price range.
Furthermore, with the current economic downturn, many shops do offer discounts for luggages as people are not traveling as much as they used to. I may even be able to get further discounts during the Christmas and year end sale. So, I think I should be able to get a great bargain for my luggages, which I’m sure will lasts me for quite a while, if I do pick up a good brand.
Oct
26
2009
I think many relationships go through this common pattern. We all start with love and then somehow… end up with bitterness after some time together.
From Myspace Quotes
What happened in between, do you think?
Oct
26
2009
If you want to lose weight, it is only wise to look for effective weight loss pills that will actually do the work of helping you to shed off the pounds. Not all pills are effective or safe for consumption and this is what you need to be aware of when looking for a solution to your weight problem.
Furthermore, the most expensive pills are not necessarily the most effective. You need to check what they can do through the ingredients used and how they will be able to help you lose those extra fat. Whether they will supress your appetite or increase your metabolic rate, you do need to find out what would best suit your situation and body.
Oct
26
2009
Whenever you want to marry someone, go have lunch with his ex-wife.
– Shelley Winters
How does that sound? Practical advice, isn’t it? After all, wouldn’t you want to know everything about him, good and bad, before deciding if he is the one for you? And who would be best to tell you all about him, if not his ex-wife?
So, I think there is certainly some wisdom in the quote. Sounds a little funny, in fact, but may be a life saver for all you know. Otherwise, your vision may be clouded by all the love in your heart and there is no one there to help you see properly.
The problem though is how many women can actually be good friends with their husbands’ ex-wives. Just mention “ex-wife”, and I think most women would have a ton of negative things to say, if their husbands have one. I think it will always be hard to remain non-judgemental on someone who happened to have shared a part of your husband’s life once upon a time.
Anyway, back to the quote. I guess when you have the impluse to marry someone, it never hurts to check him out with whoever who happened to know him, ex-wife included!